Hindsight being 20/20 I realize my previous post may've been a bit harsh. There were a number of contributing factors, none worth mentioning here. So, I'll just tell you about the turnaround.
By Christmas Eve Day, I'd started adjusting my attitude and it's due in part to getting a kick in the pants from the people around me... including family, friends, and all of you! Sometimes you need people to say, "What the heck is your problem?!? Snap out of it! Get a grip!" It also helps to do things you may not feel like doing. I went shopping. All of my fellow procrastinators were really nice and everyone working was really helpful (namely Kip @ Younkers). I found some good gifts and didn't spend a crazy amount of money. When I got home, Michael had holiday tunes playing on the stereo, snacks on the counter and egg nog in the fridge. I was smiling in spite of my Grinchy self. Wrapping presents also helped improve my spirits, especially when our crazy cat started jumping into the middle of piles of paper and chasing bows around the house.
My mom also sent me this list of advice, which cracks me up...
1. Move to Florida (Trade snowstorms for hurricanes, alligators and humidity)
3. Go to a spa for a complete day of relaxation (Costly; benefits vanish upon exiting spa)
4. Buy a large bottle of wine, and drink the whole thing, then keep doing that until Christmas is over. (Expect gigantic headaches and even greater depression)
5. Board a plane for Arizona to visit family. (No adverse side effects, however treatment must be repeated every three to four months, or as needed.)
I also discovered that one of the best cures for a bad mood is spending time with little people... my neices and nephews were a riot on Christmas night. I laughed so much my stomach hurt.
Another great mood-booster ... working out. Hard.
Finally, a bit about blogging. I appreciate the frank feedback regarding this blog, what you think it should be about and how I should approach it. One of you wrote something along these lines "... it's your job, do it." You're right. Absolutely right. So even though I rarely make New Year's Resolutions, mine is to blog weekly regardless of what's going on or not going on in my life or the world at large. And I promise, you will never again read about me being crabby!
Happy New Year!
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Erin.Kiernan@whotv.com
First, Happy Thanksgiving! I know some of you have to work, while others will enjoy the holiday with family and friends. Regardless, I hope you have a great day and that even if you're working you can find things in your life for which you are thankful. Even though I'll be working, I'm grateful for a wonderful family, good friends and colleagues I enjoy. I'm also glad Michael and I are not cooking a Thanksgiving meal this year because last year nearly killed us!!! Speaking of which, if you need help stuffing or cooking a turkey don't call the Des Moines Police Department. Here's what Public Information Officer Sgt. Vince Valdez told us earlier this week, "I got a call from someone who wanted information on how to stuff a turkey. I said, well this is the police station. I told him I've had some experience stuffing a turkey and cooking a turkey but I recommend you get a hold of an expert for that!" Apparently, the caller thought the Public Information Office should have information on cooking a bird. It doesn't. If you need help, call your mother or 1-800-butterball. Finally, if you'd like to share your favorite holiday meal items and recipes, I'll start a collection to share with the group. I have a killer mashed potato dish that you might as well just spread on your thighs, but it is soooooooooooooooo yummy!
I know the day after Thanksgiving is the biggest shopping day of the year, but I've never been able to get into "Black Friday." I hate fighting crowds and I'm not willing to deal with crazy people who will get into fist fights over the latest video game or stuffed animal. Plus, it would be completely out of character for me to go Christmas shopping this early. I put everything off until the last minute. And, I hate spending money. I like giving gifts and buying myself things, but I don't like spending money. I like saving. When I was a waitress, I would keep my tip money in a huge jar and I loved dumping it out on the floor and counting it. My mom has a picture of me when I was in high school, just back from one of my first shifts at the Chuck Wagon. In it, I'm flopped in my dad's recliner with a big wad of cash in my hands and a big grin on my face. To this day I will spend hours trying to find the best deal on whatever it is I'm shopping for, I'm a sale-rack junkie and a coupon-clipping fiend. It's a sickness! Anway ... as usual, I digress! I'm wondering how all of you deal with finances and what you think about the economy right now. I'm reading two vastly different things from "experts." Some think everything will be fine once the housing market stabilizes while others think we're heading toward (or already in ) a recession. What are your views? Are you feeling the pinch this holiday season or is everything normal at your house?
Something I really despise spending money on is home or car repairs. I know it's part of life, but it stinks! A few weeks ago we were "stood up" by the fireplace and chimney company that usually inspects our place (it's a long story about horrible customer service) so I scheduled an inspection with a new guy who came highly recommended. I won't bore you with the details but what he found is bad. It speaks to shoddy, unacceptable service from our old company and requires a very expensive fix. So, it looks like there will be no cuddling up by the fireplace at the Kiernan house this winter, unless we want to risk our house catching on fire!






